Transparent Freedom

In the first three chapters of Genesis, we see that Adam is given the authority and responsibility to lead.  And that hasn’t changed.  If you’re a man, it’s not optional to be a leader.  It’s your God-given assignment and identity. 

The following are the five prototypical areas of leadership that come from the story of Adam:

1. Lead Spiritually

“Where are you?” God asked Adam in the garden.  God was holding Adam responsible for his family.  God held Adam accountable and He will hold you accountable.  If you’re married, you are responsible for your wife and children.  You will answer for their spiritual condition.

Additionally, you have responsibility for the local church.  Men are called to lead there with noble, humble leadership.

Men are to exercise spiritual leadership with maturity and good stewardship because we are going to be held accountable.

2. Lead in Exercising Dominion

God gave Adam a primary leadership responsibility in the work of taking dominion and subduing the earth.  (Gen. 1:26-30).  God has given you a domain somewhere.  All of your leadership should demonstrate some aspect of taking dominion as you bring order and structure.  Men order their lives, homes, families, and local church.  This isn’t dominance or dictatorship.  It’s responsibility.

What does your trunk, garage, closet, or desk look like?  A life that is consistently characterized by disorder is evidence of a general pattern of passivity in the domains God gives you to work and keep. 

3. Lead in Production

“Be fruitful and multiply” are God’s first words to man.  God blesses mankind with the means and the direction to be fruitful.  As with the other areas, this is a shared task.  Men and women are both to be fruitful and they each have a role in production, procreation, and provision.

But Adam has a leadership role to bear.  “If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever” Paul wrote in 1 Timothy 5:8.  Men bear the responsibility of providing–of knowing where the house payment, the groceries, and other provisions are going to come from.

4. Lead in Establishing a Family

God set a pattern with Adam of men taking the lead in forming new families.  What God communicates in Genesis 2 is–here’s how I created the first family, I took some dust and I made a man and then I took part of his side and I made his wife–but in the future, a family will be established when a man leaves his father and mother and cleaves to his wife.  This is the way it’s going to be from now on.  The man will take the initiative to leave his family and go create a new family.  And men have to lead in the initiation because once they form a family, they are responsible to lead the whole thing. 

5. Lead in Fighting the Curse

In Genesis 3, Adam and Eve fall and mankind is cursed along with the serpent.  The work they were called to do remains, but the curse brings great challenge and frustration to that work.  The story of Adam’s fall reveals three distinct areas where men have to be aware of the challenges of the curse:

• Struggle in Marriage
  God tells Eve, ”Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you” (Gen. 3:16b).  There’s not a new relationship introduced here, just a new challenge–and men and women are going to have their most serious challenge here.  It’s going to boil down to conflict over these roles: who’s leading and who’s following.  Her temptation will be to usurp your authority and you’ll struggle to get it back.
• Thorns and Thistles
  The next challenge is in the area of work. (Gen. 3:17-19).  Adam is now going to have to deal with thorns and thistles and till the ground by the sweat of his brow.  Even though we’ve developed pesticides, tractors, harvesters, and numerous other means for overcoming the curse over the years, we still have thorns and thistles in our work.  Our work is still frustrating enough to require the sweat of our brow.  So, don’t be surprised by the challenges you face in your work or in any effort to be productive and fruitful in life.  Expect thorns and thistles.  But keep working.  Embrace the work God gives you withough excuses.  Don’t grumble or complain.
• Extremes in Leadership
  And finally, we see in the story of Adam two sinful temptations for men called to lead.  First, we see in Adam’s fall the temptation to abdicate leadership.  He hid.  He blamed.  He did not lead.  He was passive.  Adam shifted from being Eve’s protector to focusing on his own preservation.  (Gen. 3:9-12).  The next thing we see in Adam’s story is the temptation to abuse leadership.  (Gen. 3:16b).  Instead of using their leadership to provide and protect, men are tempted to look down on those they lead, to be abusive and to use their authority to only care for themselves.

God has given you notice of where you’ll have problems as a leader.  You have to watch for those vulnerabilities and cultivate an instinct of engagement to overcome the temptation to either abdicate or abuse leadership.

Your leadership will now have challenges and temptations, but you still have to lead.

(From A Guide to Biblical Manhood, Stinson and Dumas)

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